I don't want love to destroy me like it has done my family

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my family has pretty much lost its mind.

im pretty mad at my aunt. she straight up kicked my grandma out of the house. my aunt and grandma have lived together for alotta years now, like 20 years. and about two or three weeks ago my aunt just said to my poor 80 year old grandma "you are too dependent on me. you need to go back to florida or something (where my grandmas best friend lives)" it broke my poor little grandmas heart. granted, my g-ma is the most annoying person on the planet. but she is old and needs help and you cant just kick her out on her own after all this time. needless to say, i am very very very mad at my aunt for how she is treating my g-ma.

my sister is stupid. she lost her job a while ago. she still hasnt gotten another job. she has 2 little kids and a teenager she is responsible for. except she isnt being the least bit responsible. and she hasnt even talked to me, mom, or my stepdad (her dad) in almost two months. i saw her oldest son (he is 23) at the cell phone store the other day. he told me she took his last months car payment to buy groceries. so now he cant pay his bills cuz she wont get a job. he told me a should stop by later that night. then me, mom, and bob went to get some groceries at aldi. i saw her there. she called me over and talked to me a little. when i mentioned i might stop by, because her son invited me over, she said "come over to my house? i dont think so!" and i was just like wtf? and then she saw my stepdad, her own father walk up, and she said "oh great" and stomps off. it hurt his feelings more than he let on cuz he hasnt done anything wrong to her. so i dont even know whats going on with her.

my dad is just being annoying. i havent talked to him in weeks. i dont want to. i ignored his calls so he started sending me sarcastic texts. i have ignored those to, this far.