Thursday, November 25, 2010
Friday, November 12, 2010
C-Tooley, this is for you.
First off, C-Tooley, im calling you out so that there is no confusion as to whom this about. Also, id like to note that dani has absolutely nothing to do with this, and this entire post is of my own accord (though that might make very little difference to you/you might have trouble recognizing this fact, and im sure you will use this post just to further beat the poor dead horse that this topic has become.)
i tried not to get involved because this is not my fight, but for some unfathomable reason, you refuse to give this up. I understand that you have very few other friends and that its difficult to let the one good friend you had go, but youve fucked this friendship up. get over it and leave dani alone. at this point, there is nothing you can do and anything past this point is just harassment for the sake of being dramatic. its stupid. just stop. im sure you feed on this sort of thing to keep your life interesting, but its really just a bother to everyone else. knock it off. here is my advice: shut the hell up. stop texting her, stop commenting on blog posts that have absolutely nothing to do with you, stop facebook chatting, stop communicating. at this point, it is best to just give up, collect whats left of this, and go your separate ways.
Second, I dont know where you get off thinking that you are better than everyone else. Trust me, honey, your aren't. You have picked up a superiority complex along the way that is totally off base. But seriously, dont judge. I know from personal experience that judging someone is a good way to wreck a relationship. Just because you dont agree with someones life choices doesnt mean that you can sit back and pass judgement. Its not your place. secretly, i think this judgement is born from jealousy, resentment, and insecurity. contrary to your belief, a person can have more than one friend at a time. you werent being "replaced." that was just insecurity on your part and nothing more.
This is my biggest point. Pay attention to this one. This one topic is really what caused me to write this. YOU SHOULD NEVER, EVER TALK SHIT ABOUT SOMEBODYS MOTHER. that was a fucking low blow and you know it. the blog post and initial comments had nothing to do with you. it was between dani and her mother. those comments were so very out of line and uncalled for. danis mother is a wonderful woman and a good mother, and such disrespectful things should never be said about her. such foul and disrespectful things should never be said about anybodys mother. i am close with my mother, and the thought of anybody who has a problem with me dragging her name through the mud because they are too immature and petty to take it up with me absolutely infuriates me. I find it hard to believe, given how close you seem to be with your mother, that this kind of thing would happen. i could sit here and say that your mother is a piece of white trash gutter slut. i could sit here and say that your mother is a manipulative, controlling, overbearing bitch just like you. and how would all that make you feel? however, im not that kind of person so i wont say those things, but think about your own mother and how you would feel before you start down that path.
seriously, this whole fight and implosion of a friendship was over nothing. it was stupid. a good friendship was ruined over something that wont matter in 20 years. i think you have a great deal of growing up and maturing to do before you can ever actually have a friendship with any true merit.
Again, i wasnt trying to jump into the hot mess that this fight has become. but you are crossing the line. you continue to harass somebody i love, and its upsetting me. my best friends mother, who has been nothing less than wonderful to me, has been dragged into your silly fight, and that upsets me too. i tried to take the high road on this one and just speak my mind. trust me, i have the capacity to say horrific things with no remorse simply because i know thats what will hurt the worst. i didnt, because i really just wish for all this silliness to stop. let it end and move on.
i tried not to get involved because this is not my fight, but for some unfathomable reason, you refuse to give this up. I understand that you have very few other friends and that its difficult to let the one good friend you had go, but youve fucked this friendship up. get over it and leave dani alone. at this point, there is nothing you can do and anything past this point is just harassment for the sake of being dramatic. its stupid. just stop. im sure you feed on this sort of thing to keep your life interesting, but its really just a bother to everyone else. knock it off. here is my advice: shut the hell up. stop texting her, stop commenting on blog posts that have absolutely nothing to do with you, stop facebook chatting, stop communicating. at this point, it is best to just give up, collect whats left of this, and go your separate ways.
Second, I dont know where you get off thinking that you are better than everyone else. Trust me, honey, your aren't. You have picked up a superiority complex along the way that is totally off base. But seriously, dont judge. I know from personal experience that judging someone is a good way to wreck a relationship. Just because you dont agree with someones life choices doesnt mean that you can sit back and pass judgement. Its not your place. secretly, i think this judgement is born from jealousy, resentment, and insecurity. contrary to your belief, a person can have more than one friend at a time. you werent being "replaced." that was just insecurity on your part and nothing more.
This is my biggest point. Pay attention to this one. This one topic is really what caused me to write this. YOU SHOULD NEVER, EVER TALK SHIT ABOUT SOMEBODYS MOTHER. that was a fucking low blow and you know it. the blog post and initial comments had nothing to do with you. it was between dani and her mother. those comments were so very out of line and uncalled for. danis mother is a wonderful woman and a good mother, and such disrespectful things should never be said about her. such foul and disrespectful things should never be said about anybodys mother. i am close with my mother, and the thought of anybody who has a problem with me dragging her name through the mud because they are too immature and petty to take it up with me absolutely infuriates me. I find it hard to believe, given how close you seem to be with your mother, that this kind of thing would happen. i could sit here and say that your mother is a piece of white trash gutter slut. i could sit here and say that your mother is a manipulative, controlling, overbearing bitch just like you. and how would all that make you feel? however, im not that kind of person so i wont say those things, but think about your own mother and how you would feel before you start down that path.
seriously, this whole fight and implosion of a friendship was over nothing. it was stupid. a good friendship was ruined over something that wont matter in 20 years. i think you have a great deal of growing up and maturing to do before you can ever actually have a friendship with any true merit.
Again, i wasnt trying to jump into the hot mess that this fight has become. but you are crossing the line. you continue to harass somebody i love, and its upsetting me. my best friends mother, who has been nothing less than wonderful to me, has been dragged into your silly fight, and that upsets me too. i tried to take the high road on this one and just speak my mind. trust me, i have the capacity to say horrific things with no remorse simply because i know thats what will hurt the worst. i didnt, because i really just wish for all this silliness to stop. let it end and move on.
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