[Creep-Radiohead]
i was getting creeped upon hardcore by this guy at the green fuzz party. i did not like it :(
at first, he was just standing next to me in the basement. and he said hi. i thought nothing of it. then, i found him standing next to me while standing in the hall way, while i was outside the basement door, in line for the bnathroom, and sitting on the couch in the living room. he kept showing up. finally while i was waiting in line for the bathroom, he introduced himself. he kissed my hand. i was flattered, but absolutely and totally uninterested. he asked me for a dance later. i gave something equivalent to a "meh" and left, trying not to be rude, but trying to show i was not interested.
he showed up later while a was in the basement. he wanted to dance with me. i didnt want to. he kept grabbing me. i didnt like it. my friends did not help me, they laughed at me. so i ran to the bathroom. he followed me. he started talking to me. i ran back to the basement.
he caught me again on a trip back from the bathroom (dont judge me, i broke the seal and had to pee all the damn time.) he had been sitting on the couch in the hallway that i would inevitably have to pass to get between the basement and the bathroom. he tried to talked to me. i was trying to get away. he said "so im single. how about you?" i stammered "uh.. uh.. i really have to get back to my friends now!" and ran off. he said "ill be here waiting for you!!" he was weirding me out.
i went back into the basement. i was fine for a while. errrca texted me and said "there is some guy out here asking everyone about you." i responded "help me!"then he walked into the basement, looking around. i moved across the room near the bar, putting the huge crowd of people between us. he saw me, and literally started circling. i ran up to Doorstop, one of the nice (and cute) frat brothers i had been talking to earlier, and drunkenly and babblingly explained my situation. i asked him to looking like we were having a legit conversation so hopefully the guy wouldnt come up to me, and to watch the guy and tell me when the guy wasnt looking so i could sneak away. doorstop helped me out. i ran out of the basement and found errrca. the guy followed out right behind me.
please let me explain. i know now there are many things i could have said that would have made this situation much better. i could have blatantly said "listen, im not interested." i could have responded to his question with "no im not single, and i love my boyfriend very much." even a "im actually here with my girlfriend," would have probably worked. i was fairly drunk, however, and thinking logically was difficult. i was legit getting freaked out by this guys persistence.
i hurdled the couch into the living room and ran to brett (errrcas bf) and geodude (another frat brother). errrca explained what was going on, and like everyone else, they laughed. i hid there for a while, and when she said the coast was clear, i went back to my drinking and such.
while i was in the basement again, i turned around to find him advancing on me from across the room. i turned and ran. the floor was sticky with alcohol and my foot got stuck. i broke my shoes running away from him. i got away and ran to the hallway. he was right behind me. i slid under the table that brett was working door from and hid under his legs until the guy couldnt find me and went in search elsewhere.
at this point, i think brett and geodude and doorstop and a few of the other guys had noticed just how very freaked out i was that this guy was bothering me. the guys went and had a talk with him and told him i was very very not interested and he needed to cool it. for the rest of the night, he was always around, watching, giving me looks, but he never said anything else to me.
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